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Wednesday, 27 August 2008

  • Hair Questions Round 2

    So I just recently have cut my hair short (June) and I am already contemplating growing it out. This of course is much less of a commitment, and a lot more laid back decision process. Anyway, here is a collage of hair inspiration. The pictures on the left are of Basia Bulat and my friend Desiree, and reflect the length I am going for, while the pictures on the right, of Zooey Deschanel, and photographer Jen Gotch reflect the texture of my hair and are more specific about the style I am looking for. Let me know what you think. I want to keep it the shorter length because I have fought my hair being too frizzy and unhealthy for years, and when it is real long and unhealthy it tangles too bad, and I don't take care of it.

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Wednesday, 20 August 2008

  • What is worth killing for?

    For a few years now I have been trying to articulate my feelings about non-violence. Oddly enough I woke up this morning got dressed and went down to the litchen to prepare my lunch and suddenly- I don't know where I started- found myself giving an internal monologue of where I am at this point.

    I guess it started the other night when we were watching the Saddleback Civil Forum. Rick Warren, whose mission program is called PEACE, asked both candidates "What is worth American Citizens dying for?" and after all of these months of inability to express how I feel about war, as a christian, it suddenly struck me that this is the wrong question. This is the usual way we frame the question, "What is worth dying for?", but it is a false question. The loss of American lives or any lives in a war does not get us what we wanted when we went to war. The question they are really asking is "What is worth killing for?"

    As someone who claims and strives to follow Christ, this is the question I have to ask, and I have to wonder what Jesus would have answered, and is his answer for me, a christian individual, different from the one he would give to a nation whom the rest of the world views as the governmental representation of Christianity, whether they are wrong or right to do so, or to a president who claims to follow Christ? It seems like a government which is not necessarily Christian would have different responsibilities than an individual who is following Christ, but what happened then to the idea that it is incorrect to seperate the sacred from the secular.

    This is where it would be easier to be a monarchy or dictatorship. If someone else makes the decision we can blame it on him, but living in a democracy where we the people supposedly rule, I feel that the blood is on my hands as well.

    So what has America decided is worth killing for? Some say we went just to protect our oil resources, I'm not sure anyone would say that that is worth killing for.

    Most conservatives, and our current administration are most likely to say that we went in to remove Sadaam Hussein from power, and establish a democratic government. The ludicrousy of trying to force our form of government on a people whose world view is not consistent with it's presuppositions aside, I would like to say that God is okay with us killing people who are bad and trying to kill other people. That he would want us to kill a few to protect more, but at it's best and cleanest I can't feel peace with this statement, and it is certainly not at it's best or cleanest.

    There are several major problems with this justification. First, Sadaam was in power because we helped to put him there last time we thought they had a nasty dictator and it was our resonsibility oust him.  There is no resaon to believe that this won't happen again. In fact the reason we are still over there is because of the number of violent redicals just waiting to take over. Second, is the colateral damage inflicted by the U.S. "Shock and Awe" strategy any better than the lives that were already being lost? Check out www.nomorevictims.org. While our friends at BuyShoes.SaveLives. and the Preemptive Love Coaltion are fighting to save the lives of children who have various heart defects due the the chemical warfare inflicted by Sadaam, this organization is doing the same for those who have received injuries from U.S. bombs. Third, we wtill have no plan to get out of this, no way to stabilize this, no idea how to fix this mess. So have we really fixed anything at all?

    The third reason I have been given for us being in Iraq is as follows: "The Muslims want to kill all Christians, and they attacked us on our own soil. If we don't go and kill them there, they will kill us all here and then there will be no more Christians to spread the gospel. Is that what you want?" First of all there is a lot of confusion here between the U.S. and Christianity. I am afraid to say, in case you are suffering from this confusion as well, that they are not the same thing. Secondly it is absolutely absurd to believe that God needs any of us to stay alive to continue the spread of the gospel. He started it without us, and he can certainly finish it as well. Third throughout history it is not the times where Christianity has been represented or monopolized by some Empire, as if this were even possible, that it has flourished. In fact during these times the movement has gone stagnant. It has been when Christians were willing to lay down their lives, the times they have refused to live by the sword, that the Kingdom of God, the Body of Christ, has flourished and grown, beyond what any man can comprehend. Truly the blood of the martyrs is the seed of the Church.

    So I guess this is my real question: Is there any problem or any threat that can be solved or made better by death, hate, violence, attack, killing, murder, or war? Or are we only making it worse, breaking it more?

Friday, 15 August 2008

  • My Favorite Things: Today

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    3 Albums I want: Regina Spektor, Paolo Nutini, Basia Bulat.

    I have more interest in my hair right now than I think I have in my whole life.

    I love and am obsesses with floral maxi dresses.

    I have a recent fascination for monograms and modern calligraphy. I am trying to figure out reasons to pay people to address my envelopes, and put my initials on all of my sheets.

    My favorite flowers are peonies, even when they are made out of crepe paper.

    I love the material by Free Spirit, as I have already posted. I want to make lots of skirts and dresses from them.

    I need some sort of air conditioned mini-van for making more road-trips, especially by the time I graduate, since I have decided that practical or not RJ and I are going to figure out a wau to be hobos/nomadic, because it is both of our dreams, and you only live once.

    I absolutely love these denim cullottes from Anthropologie. If I had them I would wear them every day. I think Abercrombie & Fitch have the best skinny jeans. They are just the right amount of straightness and are shaped great at the top.

    I love and always have loved toys/art/decorations that look like fruit and vegetables. I think they are just about the coolest, and most beautiful ever, I don't know why.

    I love this blazer from J.Crew. Pretty much I love all clothes from J.Crew, and agree with other bloggers when I say that if I had to only wear one brand of clothes for the rest of my life it would be them, and it wouldn't be too bad.

    I love books/reading more than any other thing that is not alive in the whole world.

    I am crazy about Bonne Bell LipSmackers. I wear it every day in lots of different flavors, and have for years. They have always taken care of me, besides that short amount of time that none of the stores had any and I bought all that Drug Emporium had laft and was about to write a letter to the company when they came back. I don't know what I would do without it.

    My favorite food is Archer Farms Fruit Strips in pretty much any flavor. Although I am just a huge fruit and vegetable fan of any kind right now. Whenever I crave something a lot I tell RJ that it's because his baby likes that food, even though I am not pregnant.

    Basic Instinct by Slumber Parties is my new favorite perfume. It is made of essential oils that react with your natural body chemistry to create a scent that is unique to you.

    This silky shirt and dress are by a label called Tucker, actually the shirt is called a Tucker. It comes in like a million fabrics and is flattering on pretty much anyone. I love them.

    Don't you think this fedora is pretty cool?

    Question: I bought three cute outfits last night at Rue 21-Shirt, Skirt, and Earrings for les than $8 a piece. I think that was a good move. I am thinking though, is it smarter to save your money to buy things, like those anthropologie pants I really love, and a good blazer, and blouse; that are such high quality and so versatile even though they are so expensive, because they are investments? This way you have fewer clothes but they are the best. Is one of these types of shopping preferable to the other, or should you do some of both?

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